I GIVE EXACTLY THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF FUCKS, AND YOU CAN, TOO.
Giving the right amount of fucks is more than an attitude.
It requires knowing what actually matters, why it matters, and how to hold that position when the pressure to abandon is loud.
That's what I write about and teach.
I care deeply about people and justice — especially people’s safety, dignity, and belonging.
Those things require agency: the freedom to think and act for ourselves.
When our agency erodes, power concentrates elsewhere, and our confusion becomes their tool.
I help people keep their agency inside authoritarian systems designed to take it.This is a Paragraph Font
I build frameworks and tools for liberation—across motherhood, relationships, and dominant culture—by:
1. making the structure of power visible and thinkable, and,
2. modelling ways and reasons to reject norms and confront power.
All of my work sits at the intersection of critical thinking, power, and culture.
Critical thinking isn’t an elite skill; it’s a capacity we all already have. Like any muscle, it strengthens with use and weakens when it isn’t exercised.
I can help you strengthen that capacity so you can accumulate personal power—thinking clearly, resisting coercion, confronting power, and making decisions without confusion or moral bullying.
4 WAYS TO ENGAGE WITH MY WORK
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Courses & tools for liberation
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I'm Natasha Coulis.
I’ve spent my life seeing how ideas connect together as systems and noticing patterns most people are trained to ignore.
As an autistic thinker, I naturally track the architecture of ideas and beliefs: how arguments are built, where assumptions slip in unnoticed, and how power influences our reasoning.
I studied logic and philosophy to formalize what I had long been doing intuitively. Then, through much trial and error in public spaces, I have learned what people miss and why, and how to make it more accessible.
One of the things I love most about logic is that, when you understand it, its truth is self-evident. You don't need trust. You either understand, or you don't, but "belief" is not a part of the equation. Logic is the closest thing you can have to knowing. And you can use logic to locate truth anywhere it's findable.
If that sounds like a big claim, if you feel doubtful, stick with me, come on a journey, and I'll prove it to you.
If you've ever watched an argument go nowhere and wondered what was actually happening — this is for you.
